BBC STORY- Problem is in root….

Navin married Ayesha. They were living happily. Navin was working in a school and Ayesha was a school teacher. As the days were passing, Ayesha observed some strange behavior in her husband. He was missing his work and sleeping for a long time. As he was irregular in work, he lost his job. Gradually Navin was getting to aggressive and if Ayesha said anything to him he used to shout at her and beat. For a long time Ayesha didn’t say this to anybody. Then one day she informed the matter to her in laws house.

When Ayesha said about Navin to his family they said to Ayesha that Navin used to take drugs. Ayesha got very shocked because she didn’t know that before she married him. She understood what was going on with Navin. It was not unclear to her anymore that Navin was taking drugs and this was the reason behind his all weird behavior.

Then she tried her best to make feel Navin better, but nothing happened. It brought up rather an irony. Before, when Ayesha didn’t know about Navin‘s drug abuse, he used to take them secretly, but when Ayesha came to know that Navin was taking drugs he started to do that in front of Ayesha. The situation was getting worse and worse.

Then again she went to Navin‘s father, who was a lawyer, and asked help form him. What he replied was really ridiculous. He said every people have some bad habits like some people do smoke and some people sleep lately and some people sit in front of computers for a long time. He said Navin‘s this habit was also like one of those habits. Ayesha was stunned to hear the answer from his father in law.

Ayesha came back to her home and nothing changed, but everything was getting worse. Then she took the hardest decision of her life, she divorced Navin.

Now Ayesha is teaching in the school and staying with her brother’s home and Navin is staying in his father’s home doing nothing, but doing drugs.

What is the output? If Navin’s father took necessary steps and support Ayesha, may be they would live together happily. Whose fault was that? Don’t you think it the fault of the mentality of some people of the society? Navin’s father was a lawyer, but form his decision can you say he is an educated person? If an educated person is having this kind of mentality what would be the mentality of the uneducated people of the country, who are the majority of the country? Then how can we except a prosperous, problem free country?

 Note: The names I have used here are not real.